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The fact is that gay people exist. That homosexual desire exists on a non-negligible scale is not some recent cultural invention. What purpose is there, exactly, in trying to change people into something that they are not, in order to make them fit into your ideal world view?And if you don’t wish to change them into something they aren’t, then what role do you expect them to play in society? I prefer one where they raise families, and love their children and sacrifice for their children in every bit the same way people have done for thousands of years.============The fact is that people with all kinds of sexuality dysfunctions exist. However, people are not their dysfunctions, they weren’t born with them, and they don’t have to be that way. What you claim is “what they are” is not what they are. That’s the problem. A pedophile is not just “being himself,” he’s being his dysfunctional self. So is someone with a homosexuality problem. Resolve the problem and they function as they were born and as who they are, heterosexuals. If a man gives a woman a sexually perverted look, is that him “being who he is”? Or that him being a perverted version of what he could he be? So if a woman gives another woman a sexually perverted look, what is the difference? If a man wants to watch women having sex with animals, is that him being “who he is”? What if a man wants to watch two women having sex, or three people, or three people and a dog? Since when are all forms of sexual desire inborn? The only one we are born with is heterosexual, because that is what the human species is.What purpose do we have in having people resolve their psycho-emotional-ideological problems that cause all kinds of sexuality dysfunctions? What purpose is there to solve pedophilia problems, spreading of STDs, adultery, eating disorders, etc.? The purpose is so that they can have wholesome and healthy psychologies regarding sexuality and relationships – that is, wholesome, adult, heterosexual relationships. The purpose is also to prevent harm, because people do have a right not to be sexually disrespected, harassed, exploited, and abused. Denying that people have problems and normalizing their problems is running away from dealing with them.And the more in denial you become, the more problems there are and the more harm is done.For example, the more you promote homosexuality, the more bisexuality there is. And the more same-sex sexual harassment there is. You are in favor of more harmful sexual behavior, I’m in favor of less. Because this is what is happening in reality, outside your “anything goes and there are no problems” bubble.Everyone is accountable for their psychological problems, especially those that lead to do doing harm. Don’t expect a 20-year old to have a good grasp on that. “Born that way and being repressed” is so much more enthralling! No responsibility involved. Do not deal with anything.Pretending that people with a homosexual or bisexual problem sexually harass others because they can’t get legally married is the apex of nonsense. memorialbaptistbeckley.com maqdown.com

Declaring homosexual pairings legally “marriage” is like that sensible legislature which defined Pi to be legally 3.And why, like so many other things we do that can’t bear complete transparency, but demand we obfuscate, is it necessary to always use the euphemism “gay”? Just as “enhanced interrogation” or “quantitative easing” are found necessary, as if changing words changes the underlying facts.Can an entire society evidence severe dysfunction, as well as the members of it? According to many measures, we have become dysfunctional. History is replete with examples. But ours makes us truly the “essential nation,” if exceptionalism is the measure.We incarcerate 25% of the world’s prison population. We invade other countries which don’t consent to becoming satrapies, make war pre-emptively and lie about our reasons. Our armies wage an amorphous forever war without borders and without democratic oversight. We occupy the globe militarily, prop up dictators who do the bidding of our elites and the taxpayers spend more for this militarism than all the rest of the world combined. We have the most invasive and intrusive domestic surveillance state the world has ever created, a Stalin’s dream. We create “investments” out of whole cloth and when the crash comes we reward the perpetrators and punish the victims. We think that celebrating homosexuality in the military is moral progress, while giving out medals for remote control assassinations from the comfort of Las Vegas recliners is too. Drones patrol our heavily militarized borders from which a 100 mile buffer exists within the country in which the Constitution is suspended. Our entertainment competes for our thrilling sensations by ever more breaking former moral barriers and celebrating the shocking and destructive, whether of violence or sex, or a toxic combination. Torture, individual and mass murder are entertainment. A permanent surplus in the millions of jobless is declared acceptable. Deficits measured in endless trillions don’t matter. A presidential candidate declares he’s written off almost half the population. The poorest are declared the villains in the economic disaster, while the wealthy captains of industry decide there’s more in it for them by offshoring their industries and impoverishing their neighbors. A nation of immigrants demonizes immigrants. Health care “reform” ends up being just another cynical mass wealth transfer to Wall Street. We consider ourselves exempt from working within the cooperative bounds of the natural ecosystem pf millions of years while permanent changes to the planet’s that will produce enormous suffering for all lifecome closer.Our “exceptionalism” could as well be along the route of deviation from the good, rather than the empty egotism and self indulgent boasting it actually is.It seems that if it is deemed progress, rather than simply being even more evidence of our self-deceptive self-indulgence that recognizes no restraint or genuine restraint on our appetites, homosexual “marriage” must be just about the only thing that shows we actually are progressing. No wonder it mesmerizes us with its importance. maqdown.com tracygracedesigns.com

I do not think that you can love someone <a href="cyhkbikql.com">rocmatinally< and not lust for them. I think failing to lust the person you claim to love is ultimately insulting and unhealthy for any relationship.I think sex is overrated. Its fun, pleasurable, dont get me wrong. But I dont need it. I am perfectly fine being in a romantic monogamous relationship with someone, having mutually lustful desires, but not actually performing sexual activity.I think you can love and be in love and not have sex. But the desire to do so is what is important.Consider a dirty skank who is known for having had sex before. Say she choses to stop that promiscuous lifestyle and date for love, instead. No matter how nice and patient the guy is, not matter how much he cares for sex or doesnt care for sex he will always wonder about her true affections and motivations for having been willing to put out for lesser men but in claiming to love, wont anymore. A guy would doubt her loyalty and lustful desires for him and would be insulted.You cannot enter into a relationship and be sexual at any point, then to fall back onto celibacy, without drawing concern. Imagine if your boyfriend quit wanting to have sex with you just doesnt want it from you any more. How would you feel? Its far easier to know he is a virgin or that he wants to wait until he knows you better. Its not so easy for a woman if her guy just up and quit.Im sorry to say, no matter how nice the guy is, no matter how much he respects you or wants to make something with you if youre not a virgin, and especially if you have been promiscuous in the past, he WILL expect consistent sex. This is a bad trap for any young woman to fall into I say stay celibate.I can do without sex. Sometimes its hard to, but I manage. Its a choice. I am capable of turning women down. It doesnt define me and isnt a basis for a relationship, but it an integral part of a successful life-time committed romance.Its important, yes, but sex should neither be the basis for a relationship nor should it be the basis for ending one. +3Was this answer helpful?